Tech tip: What really happens when you unsend a text on your iPhone (2024)

If you have an iPhone 8 or later, you’ve probably already updated to iOS 16.The latest operating systemhas many new security features you should be using.

A super-secure mode was designed for politicians, activists, and journalists. I think there’s a great case to suggest this iPhone option for the elderly and vulnerable people in your life.Tap or click here for a closer look at Lockdown Mode.

Here’s another buried setting that just got upgraded: Your iPhone’s ability to detect sounds and alert you.Tap or click for steps to set up custom sounds, like your home’s appliances.

One of the most noteworthy features of iOS 16 is the ability to edit and unsend text messages. It’s not as clear-cut as it seems. Here’s the truth.

Myth: When you unsend a text, the recipient will never know.

Reality: Your recipient gets a notification.

Yes, you can take back a message you sent, but there’s more to it. The unsend featureonly works with iMessage (iPhone to iPhone), and youandthe recipient must be running iOS 16.

If you unsend a message to someone running an older version of iOS, they’ll still see it, and you’ll get a notification reminding you of that.

Here are a few more things to keep in mind when unsending a message:

• You can only take back a message within two minutes of sending it.
• The recipient can read your message before you unsend it.
• If you unsend a message, it will disappear from the recipient’s screen, but they’ll be notified that you unsent it.

Now that you know how it works, here’s how to unsend a message:

• While in an iMessage conversation,tap and hold the messageyou want to unsend.
• TapUndo Send.

Myth: When you edit a text, the recipient will never know.

The reality: You guessed it — they’ll get a notification.

Editing a text follows the same rules. You can, but it only works with iMessage, and both iPhones must be running iOS 16.

If you edit a message you sent to someonerunning an older version of iOS, all your edited messages will appear on their screen,andthey’ll get notifications of your edits.

Here are some things you need to know when editing a message:

• You have 15 minutes to edit a text.
• You can edit a message up to five times.
• The recipient can read your message before you edit it.
• The recipient can tap your edited message and see its edit history.

Here’s how it’s done:

• While in an iMessage conversation,tap and hold the messageyou want to edit.
• TapEditand make your changes.
• Tap theblue checkmarkwhen you’re done.

Myth: When you delete a text, it’s gone.

The reality: Those deleted messages stick around for a bit.

When you delete a text thread, it’s stored in a folderon your iPhone’s recently deleted messagesfile for 30 days. You can recover it or delete it permanently right then and there. That also means anyone can see your deleted messages if they have your passcode.

Here’s the good news: Text messages you unsend donotappear in the recently deleted messages file.

Here’s how to delete or recover recently deleted messages:

• Open theMessages appand tapEditin the top left.
• TapShow Recently Deletedto view messages marked for deletion.
• You can delete a message immediately by selecting it and tappingDelete>Delete Message.
• Recover a message by selecting it and tappingRecover>Recover Message.
• You can tapDelete AllorRecover Allat the bottom of the screen to apply these actions to all your deleted messages.